When Siblings Stop Speaking
“Brothers and sisters can love each other deeply, defend each other fiercely, and yet wound each other in ways strangers never could.”
“Brothers and sisters can love each other deeply, defend each other fiercely, and yet wound each other in ways strangers never could.”
Elijah’s conclusion was simple and sharp: “Forgiveness isn’t letting evil win. It’s refusing to become evil because you were wounded.”
Barbara said it plainly: “Forgiveness doesn’t cancel consequences. It cancels your right to revenge.”
Elijah said it without sugarcoating: forgiveness is wonderful—but it’s better not to sin in the first place.
“Everybody wants unity,” Jeremiah said, folding the bulletin like it was heavier than paper. “But unity isn’t achieved by silence. Unity comes when we submit to the same authority.”
Elijah rested his hand on the open Bible. “And if we can’t submit to Scripture when it’s uncomfortable,” he said, “then we never really submitted at all.”